General practice

Volume 185 - Issue 8

Men who have sex with men (MSM): how much to assume and what to ask?

Authors:  Marian K Pitts, Murray A Couch and Anthony M A Smith

Med J Aust 2006; 185 (8): 450-452. || doi: 10.5694/j.1326-5377.2006.tb00645.x
Published online: 16 October 2006

In Australia, about 150 000 men aged 16–59 years identify as gay or bisexual, while a similar number identify as heterosexual but have some history of same-sex sexual contact. Pitts, Couch and Smith advise that the clinical implications for these men include more than sexual health concerns. They suggest several consultation skills that can help doctors to recognise these men and better meet their needs.

What are the clinical implications?
What are the practical implications?
When, how, and what to ask a man about sex?

Simply put, when and if you consider it matters, avoiding a default assumption that the man is heterosexual, even if he is married, partnered with a woman or has children. MSM have wives and children too! In most cases, the need to ask is determined by the presenting condition, and it may not matter so much to whom a man is attracted, or what he identifies as his sexual identity, as what his recent sexual practices have been. So, ask questions about the sex he does, rather than about what he is. Of course, if the presenting problem has to do with a complicated life course perhaps including mental health issues, then questions about sexual attraction and identity could well be the important ones. The case scenarios (Box) show the differing process and outcomes when a doctor recognises, or fails to recognise, the possibilities.

For new patients, it may be easy to indicate that a full sexual history is a usual part of an initial consultation, whatever the presentation. For existing patients, sexual history may be best approached indirectly. A statement that hepatitis B vaccination is freely available and recommended for all men who have had sex with another man can be mentioned in the context of reminding all male patients of vaccination schedules. If a clinician (or a practice) takes a “no default assumptions” approach to sex, then the move into questions of sexual attraction, identity and practice will happen when, and if, they matter.

Finally, we are confident that it is rare that health articles define the population in terms of a single behavioural characteristic. To think analogously, would we not shrink from referring to WWR (women who reproduce), PWJ (people who jog), or indeed MSW (men who have sex with women)? Is it so surprising that we would prefer the term “male-to-male sexual practices” or MMSP?

Case scenarios

Scenario 1 — MSM not recognised

Rob is a 36-year-old man who lives in a regional town. He is married with three young children and is feeling guilty and highly anxious following an unsafe sexual episode with another man a while ago. He feels he will be able to relieve his anxiety only by having an HIV test. He goes to a local doctor he does not know, as he does not want to use his family doctor, who also treats his wife and children. On the information form, he states that he is married.

In the consultation, Doctor A invites him to discuss his presenting problem, and Rob leads into it by saying he is very embarrassed because he has been unfaithful to his wife. Doctor A, sensing his embarrassment, tries to help by asking whether the woman is someone he is having an ongoing affair with and whether he feels she might have had an STI. Not knowing how to get round this, Rob says that he is worried about STIs. Doctor A ends the discussion, which is clearly becoming more uncomfortable, by ordering a series of STI checks and suggesting the affair has been a bad idea and should end. The tests do not include an HIV test. Rob has gained nothing from the visit; he does not return for the test results.

Scenario 2 — MSM recognised

Rob, still anxious, goes to another doctor in the town to try to have an HIV test. This time he notices a health promotion poster for same-sex attracted people (Figure*) in the waiting room and so feels more confident. He completes the information form again to say he is married but notes an option for “same sex relationship”. These signals lead him to feel safer about discussing his concerns.

Doctor B asks why he has come, and he says he has had unsafe sex with someone other than his wife. “Was that with a male or a female partner?” asks Doctor B. He then asks what Rob actually did with that partner. Rob and Doctor B agree that an HIV test is necessary and discuss other STI tests as well. Hepatitis B vaccine is also discussed, along with the levels of anxiety Rob has been feeling. Doctor B takes the opportunity for a reminder about the importance of practising safe sex in the kind of situation Rob describes, but acknowledges that is not always easy. He will see Rob again for his test results, and makes sure he will return by telling Rob he is pleased to have met him and that he would be happy to see him any time he needs to talk about things.

When his test results come back negative, Rob and Doctor B use the feeling of relief to talk through some of his health risks and to plan strategies to avoid anxiety in the future. After the consultation, Rob feels less guilty and more in control of his life, and less likely to take risks with his own health and the health of his wife in the future.


* This poster and other useful resources are available at http://www.glhv.org.au/
MSM = men who have sex with men. STI = sexually transmitted infection.


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